Calm Connection
6-Month Parent Coaching Program to Restore
Peace in Your Home
Trade Overwhelm and Tension for Calm, Confident Connection...Even in the Midst of Intense Emotions
6-Month Parent Coaching Program to Restore
Peace in Your Home
Trade Overwhelm and Tension for Calm, Confident Connection...Even in the Midst of Intense Emotions
Find the calm you've been craving...
And the Peace Your Family Deserves
Your Step-by-Step Plan to Calm the Chaos and Manage the Meltdowns
Inside this step-by-step approach, you'll learn how to:
Uncover what’s behind your child’s meltdowns
Listen with curiosity to problem-solve
Make appropriate adjustments
Respond with tools that will actually work!
Parenting your emotionally intense child can be...
easier than you think!
Imagine if you...
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Finally understood what was driving the meltdowns and challenging behaviors
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Knew how to respond without yelling and had tools that actually worked with your child
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Had a planned approach for emotional dysregulation, instead of just guessing what to try
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Felt confident advocating for your child with teachers, coaches, and even extended family
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Watched your home shift from the chaos of emotions and baffling behaviors to a place you could feel peace
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Felt the confidence to go and do fun things as a family, and you actually enjoyed it!
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Experienced six months of Jami walking with you, guiding, and supporting as you implement tools and made change!
REAL FAMILIES. REAL STRUGGLES. REAL THOUGHTS.
The Calm Connection Journey
Scroll to see what clients from the Calm Connection Program have to say!
✨ Your Calm Connection story could be next.
Join this life-changing program and get unstuck...
So you can parent with calm and confidence.
READY FOR A PROGRAM THAT DOESN'T JUST TELL YOU WHAT TO DO BUT SHOWS YOUR STEP-BY-STEP HOW TO CALM THE CHAOS AND CREATE PEACE?
The Calm Connection Parenting Program
with Jami Kirkbride
In the Calm Connection Parenting Program, you will learn the step-by-step iHeart approach to help you quiet the rages, meltdowns, and challenging behaviors that tend to disrupt your family life and cause chaos. Instead, trade that emotional chaos for some calm, confident connection. Learn to understand and respond to the true needs your child has, related to personality, sensory processing needs, or mental health issues. This framework for parenting can bring about a miraculous transformation in your family and home. Experience ongoing support as you make changes on the path to peace and calm.
A Glimpse Inside the Program...
MODULE 1
Investigate
Clarity begins with what you find inside.
Learn to look inward and uncover what you bring into each parenting situation. Identify whether your thoughts, feelings, fears, or past experiences are shaping your responses. Evaluate issues for both you and your child. Discover the value of listening, not just to words, but to what’s unsaid, the situation, and the environment around you, for new insight, clarity, and problem solving.
MODULE 2
Validate
Understanding builds cooperation.
Develop the skill of empathy and practice dialogue that helps your child feel truly understood. Explore ways to validate feelings without giving in to chaos, and learn how empathy lowers defensiveness and increases trust. Begin adjusting your parenting approach with problem-solving strategies that strengthen connection, reduce power struggles, and increase cooperation.
MODULE 3
Create
Choosing intention over reaction
Now that you’ve laid the groundwork, you’ll start creating responses that bring calm and clarity. Learn how to make thoughtful adjustments based on your child’s unique needs and wiring. Explore how your responses, not reactions, can transform the dynamic between you and your child by building cooperation, restoring peace, and creating a more effective and collaborative dynamic.
MODULE 4
Incorporate
Bringing it all together for lasting connection + change.
This is where it all comes together. You’ll integrate the iHEART steps with your child’s personality insights, love language, sensory processing needs, and unique wiring to create a new perspective of your child’s unique needs and how to meet them with calm and confidence. By combining tools, mindset shifts, and practical strategies, you’ll step fully into parenting with calm, confidence, and connection. This module strengthens your new family rhythm and equips you with tools for long-term success.
Join me in this program to calm the big emotions and challenging behaviors,
So you can stop the daily battles and enjoy more peace in your home.
This program equips you with tools that actually work!
Is this program right for me?
This program is for you if:
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You are sick of meltdowns, outbursts, and daily power struggles
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You want to stop walking on eggshells in your own home
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You know trial-and-error parenting isn’t working
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You are willing to put in the work to see change
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You need help managing challenging behaviors
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You want tools that actually work to bring peace and connection
This program is NOT for you if:
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You are already a calm parent that doesn't need more peace in your home
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You know exactly what works for your child already
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You are looking for a quick fix with no effort
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You are already a master at understanding your child’s behavior
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Your current parenting approach is working great for your family
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You are not open to hearing about faith's role in mental health and parenting
Just What You've Been Looking For!
With the Calm Connection Roadmap You'll Be Able To...
Calm your child’s big emotions before they spiral out of control
Respond with calm and confidence, instead of fear or frenzy
Create new rhythms and routines that build peace
Strengthen connection and trust, even during hard times
Reduce power struggles to find calm with consistent tools
Model emotional regulation and teach your child coping skills
Let faith fuel your parenting with grace, wisdom, and peace
Just What You've Been Looking For!
With the Calm Connection Roadmap You'll Be Able To...
Calm your child’s big emotions before they spiral out of control
Respond with calm and confidence, instead of fear or frenzy
Create new rhythms and routines that build peace
Strengthen connection and trust, even during hard times
Reduce power struggles to find calm with consistent tools
Model emotional regulation and teach your child coping skills
Let faith fuel your parenting with grace, wisdom, and peace
Ready to stop guessing, stop walking on eggshells,
and finally know what to do with the meltdowns and challenging behaviors?
This program gives you the exact steps, tools, and support to move your family
from chaos to calm, without adding more overwhelm to your plate.
No more confusion. No more wasted energy.
No more trying to hold it all together on your own.
It’s time to feel calm, confident, and connected,
even on the hard days.
Begin Your Journey to...
Calm Connection Parenting
REAL CHANGE. REAL WINS. REAL PEACE.
What You'll Receive to Finally Bring Calm Connection Home:
Immediate access to the full coaching program and resource vault
Module 1: Investigate – Identify triggers and calm chaos
Module 2: Validate – Communicate to reduce struggles and intense emotions
Module 3: Create – Practice responses that increase cooperation
Module 4: Incorporate – Put it all together for lasting calm and connection
Private client community for ongoing support, questions, and feedback
Bonus #1: School Supports Simplified – Navigate IEPs or 504s, and advocate with confidence
Bonus #2: Behind the Behaviors – Decode behaviors and explain your child’s needs with clarity
✨ If you’re ready to FINALLY stop the daily battles and bring peace back into your family life… this program is for you!
Group Program-
6-month program
BEST VALUE
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Weekly group coaching
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Calm Connection resource vault
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Mid-week support with a client-dedicated online group
$2497
- Limited Scholarships are available. Please submit an application HERE.
Group Program-
6-month payment plan
6 Easy Payments
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Weekly group coaching
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Calm Connection resource vault
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Mid-week support with a client-dedicated online group
$427
REAL FAMILIES. REAL WINS.
Real Calm Connection Results.
This has been more than worth it! Don't stay stuck! Jump in, it will change your life!
Matt
Highly Satisfied Client
I really needed all that it has to offer! It's been a godsend! The program really makes a huge difference!
Kaylee
Highly Satisfied Client
Truly have gained an incredible amount of hope, encouragement, and practical tools to succeed at parenting...
Kristin
Highly Satisfied Client
✨ Your Calm Connection WINS await you!
Hello there! I'm Jami...
Professional Counselor, Parent Coach, Mom of 7
Friend, if you’ve ever felt like you’re failing because nothing seems to work with your child... you’re not alone.
I know the meltdowns, the exhaustion, and the heartbreak of wondering if peace will ever return to your home.
I’m Jami Kirkbride- mom of seven, professional counselor, parenting coach, and host of the Calm Connection Parenting Podcast. For several years, I’ve helped families just like yours move from chaos and tension to calm and connection. And I’ve lived it myself…walking through ADHD, sensory struggles, anxiety, and a mood disorder with our own child.
That’s why I created the Calm Connection Program. This is a step-by-step plan filled with the tools, strategies, and support you need to find calm and bring peace back into your family.
God chose you to be your child’s parent for a reason. You can do this! Sometimes you just need the right guide to walk alongside you. I’d be honored to be that guide.
I'm here for you and cheering you on!
Jami
Professional Counselor, Parent Coach, and Mom of 7
Friend, if you’ve ever felt like you’re failing because nothing seems to work with your child... you’re not alone.
I know the meltdowns, the exhaustion, and the heartbreak of wondering if peace will ever return to your home.
I’m Jami Kirkbride- mom of seven, professional counselor, parenting coach, and host of the Calm Connection Parenting Podcast. For several years, I’ve helped families just like yours move from chaos and tension to calm and connection. And I’ve lived it myself…walking through ADHD, sensory struggles, anxiety, and a mood disorder with our own child.
That’s why I created the Calm Connection Program. This is a step-by-step plan filled with the tools, strategies, and support you need to find calm and bring peace back into your family.
God chose you to be your child’s parent for a reason. You can do this! Sometimes you just need the right guide to walk alongside you. I’d be honored to be that guide.
I'm here for you and cheering you on!
Still have questions?
I’ve Got You Covered.
I know investing in your family is a big decision, and you may be wondering if this program is the right fit for you. Here are answers to some of the common questions parents ask before they join.
What if I can't afford the program?
Ultimately, I only want you to apply to this program if it feels right for you. So, if the cost is something you feel you can't afford, you have a few options:
1. Try some creative saving strategies, such as:
- Trade eating out and Starbucks for six months
- Plan a summer "staycation" instead of vacation and use funds for investing in this program for family wellness
- Go on a six month spending "freeze" and avoid all extra purchases of clothing, shoes, or "extras"
- Commit to 6-months of thrifting (buying and selling unused items)
2. Apply for available scholarships HERE. But also, see if there might be any other scholarship opportunities. This is something some churches or wrap-around services might occasionally do to help a family in need. So you might consider that option as well.
3. Take a long, hard look at your budget, and see if there are any places you might cut back and/or redistribute funds.
4. Possibly wait, save, and pray. You just might be surprised to see how what's needed is provided.
Unfortunately, parent coaching isn't usually covered by insurance.
We are sometimes asked to step out in faith and take action. It might also help to think of this program as an investment in your child, family, and future. It can be easy to invest in business or other things, but when family is a priority, it might mean putting some of that hard-earned money there as well. But what a blessing to think that this investment is one that can pay off for generations to come!
Is there a guarantee?
"Positive Parenting” Promise: In 6 months, you will say with 100% certainty that you have built a stronger, healthier relationship with your child and gained tools to continue building connection. Or, I'll refund 100% of your money.
Show me that you have missed not more than three of the coaching sessions offered, completed the workbooks, and listened to all the training videos. Then schedule a session for us to discuss your progress or lack of progress, and how we can handle the next steps.
Can you guarantee that we won't have any more meltdowns?
I wish I could work those kinds of miracles! I can tell you that you will experience a drastic reduction in meltdowns both frequency and intensity. In fact, within just the first couple of weeks, parents have experienced a remarkable change. But it is important to remember that your child may have some needs and issues that need to be explored. Once you know more about those needs and how they relate to their emotional or mental (for some even physical) health, you will have a better idea of the future expectations you can reasonably have.
I can guarantee you that when you approach this program with an open heart, open mind, and willingness to implement the skills, you will develop skills, strategies, and mindsets that empower you in parenting your high-need child. And through the challenges and stresses, you will be able to develop a connection that builds the trust to work through hard things when or if they do occur. And that is golden!
What if I get behind in the coursework or homework?
Your journey through this program will be unique to you. The information here is intended to be self-paced and tailored to your needs. So when you have time to devour a couple of videos, you can do that...any time! And when you feel stressed and spread thin and can't get to a video, that's OK! You have access to these materials for the lifetime of this course. So you can return to videos or audios at any time. And all the coaching sessions are recorded, so if you have to miss one, you can catch it later. Your focus during the first four months will likely be learning the basic skills and developing the mindsets. The second four months, you work to start consistently implementing the iHeart approach and other skills (revisiting some of the training sessions and videos). The last four months, you are utilizing the skills and approach and can get support or help with brainstorming solutions should you hit some speedbumps. You won't need to worry about being behind. You have lots of time to get through the materials, so prioritize your time with a coach and do the other stuff as your time allows.
My life is so busy right now, what if I'm too busy for this right now?
This is truly something that you need to think about and pray about. And I encourage you to follow God's plan for you.
I also want to ask you a couple things...
1. When will your life be less busy? We sometimes wait for the next "not busy" season and never find it. We just move from busy to busy!
2. What will happen if you don't get help with the things that are wearing you, your child, and your family down? Where will you be in a year? That answer might help you prioritize both the financial and time investment.
3. How much time could you reclaim if all the time you spent dealing with challenging behaviors, intense emotions, meltdowns, and high sensitivity could be reclaimed? How many minutes or hours a day are you spending on these issues? Many families report spending 1-3 hours a day dealing with all of that. Would it be worth it for you to have tools and strategies that could help you reclaim 1-3 hours a day or 7-20 hours a week?!
Ultimately, you need to commit when you can choose to make it work. Life might not get easier, so do it when you feel like it can benefit your family and help you become the family God would have you to be.
What are your qualifications and experience?
That is an important question. I have a Bachelor's degree in Psychology and a Master's degree in Counseling. I am a licensed professional counselor, speaker, author, personality trainer, and mother of seven. I am currently working as a parent coach. And I am careful to respect those boundaries of coaching and counseling. You may already be working with a counselor, and that is fine. The work we do will be different and will be focused on your parenting, learning skills, strategies, mindsets, and approaches to help you navigate high emotions in your home, difficult routines that trip up your child, and understanding what is behind the challenging behaviors and intense emotions. I will not be functioning as a counselor, but as a parenting coach. I will not offer medical advice, and will continually remind you that if you need the care of a counselor or medical doctor, that you consult the appropriate professional for those needs.
As for experience...I am a mother of seven and have walked the difficult road of having a child who struggles with intense emotions, ADHD, anxiety, depression, a mood disorder, and even suicidal ideation. The road often felt dark, lonely, overwhelming, and heartbreaking. I struggled to find the resources, support, and understanding that our family needed. I felt quite certain that despite my best efforts, my child and family might not make it. By God's grace, we found our way. We put together pieces of my son's health and well being. We learned strategies for working with him. We figured out some key things about his brain wiring and how we might better support those needs he had. And truly God revealed this step-by-step approach with the catchy iHeart acronym when I tried to retrace the steps that helped us succeed. Now, my passion is to help other families navigate this challenging journey. I want to help you trade the emotional chaos for the calm, confident, connection that will help your child and family not just survive, but thrive! I am here to help you do the hard work and heart work of parenting!
Still feeling unsure? Let's talk!